More than likely you will be your teenager’s sponsor, (the experienced driver who accompanies a learner driver during practise sessions). This is a very important role, your teenager’s ADI will provide a minimum of 12 hours teaching but it is you who will spend the majority of time in the car up until your child passes his or her driving test and graduates to being a fully licensed driver. During this time you have a key role in encouraging good driving behaviour. Use this time wisely, remembering that driving is a great responsibility. Instilling good decision making and habits in your teenager from the outset as they learn to drive will stand to them for the rest of their lives behind a wheel.
Below are some useful tips that are worth keeping in mind.
- Communicate with your teenager’s ADI. Understand the areas where they are strong and weak. Ensure you practice both. Reinforce the messages the ADI communicates.
- Decide on where your first practice lesson will be, an empty car park is always a good idea – your teen will be more comfortable and this will allow them to practice the basics. Be sure they have their learner permit and car insurance in place and clearly visible.
- Focus on one aspect of driving each time – reinforce the messages your teen’s ADI will have given.
- Keep the initial practice lessons short – the session times can be increased as time goes on.
- Communication is key when teaching so be encouraging and optimistic, don’t be negative – if either of you become frustrated take a break.
- Try to keep your anxiety in check - remember, the road looks very different from the passenger side.
- Keep alert – your teen will be taking in a lot of new information and concentrating hard on following your instructions.
- Emphasise the importance of good communication - your teen needs to learn how to make sure other drivers see them and how to let those drivers know what they plan to do.
- Finally, remember that driving time is just that, time to learn/ bond – it is not the time to raise other issues.
As you will remember, driving for the first time can be a daunting experience, so don’t forget to praise them when they do something right. As an experienced driver you can calmly explain when they have done something wrong and raise awareness about how this can be corrected the next time. It’s all about taking one step at a time. Helping to teach your teenager how to drive, although a challenge at times, is very rewarding so start by putting a plan in place and with a little patience your teenager will be receiving their ‘N’ plate in no time!
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Information correct as of January 2024